Life Stories

“If you are not for me, then you are against me!” I don’t remember who said this. It seems, however, to be the point of view of many people. It looks obvious. You can’t be both, only one way or the other, black or white.

Really? When I was still teaching the advanced classes of ‘Autogenic Training’*, I used to do an exercise with my students.… Read more

The Island of Maui/HI is still a place where the spirit of ALOHA is felt. The word “Aloha” has many meanings. In short, it is a way of life, it is an attitude of lovingly caring and sharing, joyfully sharing life. Living more from the heart and less from the mind.

There are some on this island who show this Aloha spirit in very special ways.… Read more

Patience is probably one of those virtues most everybody could improve upon. At least it is for me. There are some great teachers for equanimity. Take traffic, for instance. Traffic is a measuring stick on how calmly I can take things. The ultimate test for me is coming back to Maui/HI from Switzerland. Driving through Paia, the town where I live on the island, in those first few days of adapting to the 11-hour time difference can be quite challenging.… Read more

The custom of celebrating lovers or loved ones dates back centuries. There are many legends about the martyr and Saint, Valentino. In every story, he becomes a victim for not behaving as ordered. For example, it is said that he was imprisoned for performing weddings for soldiers who were forbidden to marry and for ministering to Christians who were persecuted under the Roman Empire.… Read more

I come from a long line of Swiss descendants. Among my ancestors are also bankers. However, I have never been a friend of numbers. For me, money is simply a necessity. Fortunately, I have always had just enough of it, so that I never really had to worry about paying my bills nor how to invest.… Read more

What is love? I discovered that there are many different kinds of love. This insight showed sometimes during a simple household task. This time while cleaning my bedroom windows with the help of my son’s friend George.

Those of you who are familiar with the sliding glass windows common in England and the USA know that one has to unhook one side of the window in order to clean the outside.… Read more

Natalie, though much younger than me, is a long time friend of mine. We get together regularly. Even after I moved away and a two-hour car trip separated us, we still meet about once or twice a year.

Then came the Internet with all its conveniences. Natalie became a fan of Facebook. In the first euphoric phase, I also joined this network, not knowing that I would be stuck with it forever!… Read more

Since childhood, I loved to dance. As soon as I heard music, I would start moving my body to its rhythm. In later years, I loved to dance in beautiful gowns in a ballroom with my husband. But then times changed, and I had either a partner who did not like to dance or I was single.… Read more